13 posts about Personal Life

The headmates are back, who knows what that means.

Reframing my relationship with DID for safety's sake.

I just finished three weeks in an intensive mental healthcare program. I have some thoughts.

I've been gone a while – a lot has changed. A lot hasn't.

For a long time, we thought plurality could only look like complex systems with many members, and invalidated ourselves. That's simply untrue.

Big changes in my life are intimidating but good.

Balancing online life with real life is challenging.

Things can change so quickly.

Pressure to 'grow up' kept me from self-soothing when I'm overstimulated. Time to unlearn that.

Even when systems fail you, keep trying. You may have to rely on yourself, but you're more reliable than you think.

Figuring out who you are is a challenge, especially when you lie to yourself.

Setting healthy boundaries and following through, while hard, is respecting yourself.

I've decided to make a blog, a simultaneously retro and en vogue thing to do.