notes

My bottom surgery went great!! Back home at my Airbnb recovering. I can walk around pretty easily, feeling better than I would've expected.

update the pain has arrived this shit sucks lmao

“insecure enbies” really pissed me off too like what you think we’re all just going to up and be binary trannies if you bully us enough?

i have a very secure concept of who i am! that includes a lot of medical transition! it’s so fine if you don’t! we have a lot of kinship and shared experience!

i’ve been doing this shit for toooooooooo long y’all were doing this discourse a decade ago and you’ll be doing it a decade from now and meanwhile the vast majority of us will be living our lives offline—turns out people won’t say freak shit like this to your face!

technically my psychiatrist calls me an “AMAB feminine leaning nonbinary individual” maybe we should try that one on 🫠

i am feminine-leaning in that i look like the woman i am yes

i don’t want to wade into discourse but i’m a nonbinary person about to have my third gender-affirming surgery this year why are people trying to get people who medically transition and nonbinary people to fight like we’re not the same fucking people i’m literally having nonbinary bottom surgery

tbh feeling perpetually unrepresented by all of the people yapping about this bc i think my existence disproves all of their arguments about there being actual delineation of identities this shit is fluid as hell baybee

20 days until bottom surgery ayyy i’m too hype

also since i’m talking about gender shit so much—i’m having gender nullification surgery. my body will be mine and explicitly nonbinary and not have genitals i don’t feel an connection to. i’m thrilled.