i am never less nonbinary than when a man says “i fuck women too you know” like yes, that’s what you’re trying to do right now!
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small posts and threadslast night was fun
i do wish that gender nullification surgery were more common so i weren’t constantly having to explain it to people though! it’s complicated 😩
disappointing a chaser when i don’t have a cock is highly entertaining shit ngl
i actually think it’s really fun getting my tinder account deactivated because straight men are threatened by their attraction to me. this is easily the 8th time.
i thought that just sending guys a picture of my groin would help their confusion at my surgery but they surely do look at my groin with its lack of vulva and only an exposed urethra and go “a pussy mm”
cried a little this morning because i’m getting quite healed from bottom surgery and i’m just so fucking happy with the results.
i feel so good and comfortable in my body now. i have more interest in sex too!
i wish everyone could have this access to gender-affirming care, it’s such a privilege.
it’s surely not the hardest part of healing from bottom surgery but damn is it inconvenient not being able to have sex for many weeks!! i’m suffering!
tuesday will be three weeks post-op and sitting is still decently uncomfortable so i spend most of my time laying in bed and mentally it is taking a toll on me!!
like the physical pain has sucked but this boredom and cabin fever is worse!
not having genitals 👍👍
healing from not having genitals 👎👎
slept on my side some last night for the first time since surgery which was so nice, but damn did it make me bleed a ton so we won’t be doing that for a bit longer 🫠
sometimes i wake up and i’m in a bad mood for no reason and then im like—Ah! Yes! Take your meds!!—then i feel fine.
having some wild phantom sensations after bottom surgery 😵💫
peeing with my newly located urethra is… interesting so far! not at all unlike a fire sprinkler 😂
cold brew and an ensure shake: the breakfast of champions
starting to really settle in that i don’t have a penis anymore and i’m so happy ☺️
My bottom surgery went great!! Back home at my Airbnb recovering. I can walk around pretty easily, feeling better than I would've expected.
update the pain has arrived this shit sucks lmao
tragically, i really like austin 😅 now to spend the rest of my time here in this house recovering from surgery.
16 hours to go!
in austin for bottom surgery on tuesday i am beyond hype ‼️😤
“insecure enbies” really pissed me off too like what you think we’re all just going to up and be binary trannies if you bully us enough?
i have a very secure concept of who i am! that includes a lot of medical transition! it’s so fine if you don’t! we have a lot of kinship and shared experience!
i’ve been doing this shit for toooooooooo long y’all were doing this discourse a decade ago and you’ll be doing it a decade from now and meanwhile the vast majority of us will be living our lives offline—turns out people won’t say freak shit like this to your face!