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i was going to consult for BA a bit ago but had to decide not to because Ethan’s chest dysphoria and binder wearing. i still think about it so often.

being plural is not the most fun thing.

i was going to consult for BA a bit ago but had to decide not to because Ethan’s chest dysphoria and binder wearing. i still think about it so often.

being plural is not the most fun thing.

thinking about the guy in group therapy who responded to us saying “i have no idea who i am” immediately with “well, however many of you there are, there, four, whatever” when we have not mentioned DID 🙃

thinking about the guy in group therapy who responded to us saying “i have no idea who i am” immediately with “well, however many of you there are, there, four, whatever” when we have not mentioned DID 🙃

finally wore a two piece swimsuit after like,, 9 years of transition and swam for the first time in 5 years. it was sooo nice 🥰

finally wore a two piece swimsuit after like,, 9 years of transition and swam for the first time in 5 years. it was sooo nice 🥰

not all furries, but almost always a furry for some reason we genuinely cannot parse

not all furries, but almost always a furry for some reason we genuinely cannot parse

wild that somehow the take always becomes “online community isn’t valid, i’m morally superior to you because i live somewhere i have queer friends” when it’s about privacy and consent. irl friends still have group chats where they talk shit, sorry to say.

wild that somehow the take always becomes “online community isn’t valid, i’m morally superior to you because i live somewhere i have queer friends” when it’s about privacy and consent. irl friends still have group chats where they talk shit, sorry to say.

well i picked a good day to be too busy to Log On and then to be taking a break from bluesky for the next ~3 weeks (if i can manage the self control) 🥴

if you wanna chat DM me for signal/discord would love to have folks to talk to!! 🥰

well i picked a good day to be too busy to Log On and then to be taking a break from bluesky for the next ~3 weeks (if i can manage the self control) 🥴

if you wanna chat DM me for signal/discord would love to have folks to talk to!! 🥰

we need to hook our medication tracker into bluesky so we can’t post until we’ve taken our mental health meds lmao

we need to hook our medication tracker into bluesky so we can’t post until we’ve taken our mental health meds lmao

i think i prefer looking at pre-transition photos than post-transition pre-FFS ones? is that weird?

i think i prefer looking at pre-transition photos than post-transition pre-FFS ones? is that weird?

working on a browser extension that labels posts with alter indicators with information from bios :3 it's early and very buggy but we're excited – though we never finish projects, so you know

working on a browser extension that labels posts with alter indicators with information from bios :3 it's early and very buggy but we're excited – though we never finish projects, so you know

so for some reason, our iPad when docked at our desk sends 5.1 audio to the dock, and it sends only the rear left and right channels to the speakers?

of course Apple Knows Best so there are no settings to disable 5.1 and force downsampling. no issue on macOS with the same file though. ugh.

so for some reason, our iPad when docked at our desk sends 5.1 audio to the dock, and it sends only the rear left and right channels to the speakers?

of course Apple Knows Best so there are no settings to disable 5.1 and force downsampling. no issue on macOS with the same file though. ugh.