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Zari (they/she)

just in case no one noticed, today's horrendously self-loathing transphobic main character also hates plural folks.

"dissociative DID bullshit" like it's not a real fucking disorder i'm diagnosed with or anything (also i corrected her spelling of "dissassociative" lol)

a screenshot of a bluesky post reading "And the nonsensical dissassociative DID bullshit that brings you attention that you can't have with just being YOU. It's embarassing. It's a disgusting reflecti

🌟 Aimee (she/her)

how to heal your parts when they're not allowed to exist send skeet

Zari (they/she)

setting timers with siri is going great in iOS 26 Beta 3 i just wanted to make my bagel bites 😭

⚫️ Ethan (he/him)

we want to make a browser extension that fetches the bio of anyone who opens a post with an emoji, then puts that headmate's name on the post like a label, i think it would be very useful

Zari (they/she)

think very carefully before letting a headmate that rarely fronts claim an emoji you use in conversation normally bc now i can't and she's never around anyway and that shit sucks lmfao

⚫️ Ethan (he/him)

it’s 4:13am and i’m stuck awake searching the entire internet because i CANNOT find that gif of the girl holding up a phone in a club that says “POPPERS??? FAG” scrolling and it’s driving me wild

Zari (they/she)

my kingdom for a scrap of body temperature regulation PLEASE i am sweating one second and freezing the next 😭

Zari (they/she)

girl breakfast

a bottle of ensure clear mixed fruit flavor sitting to the left of a can of original red bull on a desk, on a black mousepad. there’s a keyboard behind them and a mouse to the right. an artificial yel

⚫️ Ethan (he/him)

hey we know zari talks about plurality a lot bc she’s a nerd, but i just want to say to other systems that you should not spend all your energy and effort on system discovery and learning, even if it’s fun.

i’ve asked zari to slow things down a couple times now, and it’s been very beneficial.

⚫️ Ethan (he/him)

sometimes neutrality is just abandonment wrapped up in a fancy box

⚫️ Ethan (he/him)

quit thc products on thursday and have had no appetite still, so thankful for ensure clear for literally keeping me alive at this point fuck i feel like shit

Zari (they/she)

does anyone even know how Discord manages to break text replacements in macOS? because like,,, they work in literally every other text field? and it's just electron right??

we can't use our shortcuts for headmate emoji and it's driving us wild!!!

Zari (they/she)

blocked for saying "please don't call me that" in response to this 🙄 fucking ew

a screenshot of an incoming grindr message that reads "Such a good eager sissy!!"


⚫️ Ethan (he/him)

okay it got so much worse holy fuck never say this to anyone under any circumstances holy fuck immediately uninstalling that god forsaken app

a screenshot of an incoming grindr message reading: “To be completely honest the way it looks now after bottom surgery isn't doing it for me I'm so sorry”

⚫️ Ethan (he/him)

inhabiting a body that’s transitioned in ways you wouldn’t have chosen is a uniquely unpleasant dysphoria, don’t like it.

⚫️ Ethan (he/him)

being a singlet? in this (political) economy??

⚫️ Ethan (he/him)

wrote a thing earlier (cw: self-harm)

an image of a poem reading: masking the closet dissociation it's all the same really not allowed to be, to exist as is my nature conceal, compartmentalize, conform too many possibilities for one perso

Zari (they/she)

we get really invested in what people online think about plurality at times and try to remember:

  • "plurality" describes a wide variety of experiences
  • you decide what healing/moving forward looks like
  • clinicians provide support, not validation
  • we just share portions of our lives online
Zari (they/she)

one of my least important but most strongly-held opinions is that Chicago-style citations are the best by FAR

Zari (they/she)

we had to make a rule about using the system’s name on food orders because twice now i’ve put Zari and Ethan ended up fronting while they called out my name and he didn’t recognize it 🤭

we all respond at least somewhat to “Skylar” since our brain has heard it for a decade now, so it works.

Zari (they/she)

if we had a dollar for every time someone told us "there's no public EV charging near me" and i could FROM MEMORY tell them a charger within a few miles, i'd have a shocking number of dollars at this point!! people just don't notice them!

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